This is a common problem, if you experience it, just know, you are not alone. Please share your experiences so it can help many others like you.
Ways to deal with it:
1. Self-Audit
- Ask yourself, Am I doing enough?
- What did I do last game when I did play?
- Do I need to work harder?
2. Advice/Analyze others
- Ask other parents what their thoughts are
- Look at the other kids in your position
- Try to be better in practice than them
3. Speak to the coach
- Ask the coach, Why don’t I play as much?
- Follow-up by saying, What can I do to play more?
- Agree on a timeframe to see a change
Our advice after this would be to see out the season or see out the next 2-3 games and then make a decision. If you implement changes but don’t see any change in your game-time, it may be best to find a new opportunity. You have shown patience, ability to change, and willingness to analyze yourself.
